Relationship Health · Signal reading
Trust Issues Check
Something has not been sitting right, and you are not sure whether the doubt belongs to this relationship or to an older one — this reads what has been happening between the two of you beside where the worry sits, and gives you one thing you can do for your own sake.
What this looks at
- Whether the small, ordinary things are straight, and what happens when you raise something that has been bothering you.
- Whether what gets said and what happens line up, and whether plans and explanations hold together.
- How long this has been going on, whether anything specific has happened between you, whether it has come around again, and whether the worry is one you have carried before.
Not being sure whether you can trust someone you are close to is heavy to carry, and wondering about it does not make you unfair or suspicious. Nothing here is a judgment of you or of your partner, and your own history is context rather than a fault. If any of this feels bigger than a conversation, it is worth talking to someone you trust, or to someone whose job it is to help.
This reading is an interpretation of what you describe — not a fact about your partner, not a finding about anything that has or has not happened, and not advice. Read the disclaimer.
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How this reading works
This reading looks at what has been happening between you and at where the worry sits. Your answers cover three kinds of signal: whether the small, ordinary honesty holds; whether what gets said and what happens line up, and whether plans and explanations hold together; and what happens when you raise a concern. It also asks how long this has been going on, whether anything specific has happened and whether it has come around again, and whether you have been hurt this way before — not to find fault with you, but because a worry that arrives on its own reads differently from one that arrives after something happened. Steady means what you described holds together. Mixed means something real sits beside something else that is real. Hard to read means there is not enough yet. Quiet means several things lean the same way. Worth talking through means they lean together and raising them has not opened anything. This reading works from what you tell it: it looks for patterns in your answers, it cannot see anything you did not describe, it does not know what anyone else is thinking, and it does not predict what happens next.
Questions people ask
Does this work whether it's a he, a she or they?
Yes — same questions, same reading. The page is written for anyone in a relationship with anyone, nothing in the questions or the readings assumes a gender on either side, and the pronoun variants people search with are all answered by this one page.
Is this accurate?
It is as accurate as what you describe: it reflects the pattern in your own answers and says what that combination often goes with. It does not know what has happened, what your partner feels or intends, or whether your worry is right — and it will not tell you that the worry is your fault. It treats "is it me?" and "is it the situation?" as two real questions and says which of them your answers actually speak to. A reading taken in a few weeks, or after the conversation, may look different from this one, and that is the point of reading a pattern rather than a moment.
Is this a quiz or a calculator?
Neither, really. There is no score, no percentage, no grade and no right answer. Each of the twelve questions feeds one part of the reading — transparency, consistency, how concerns are received, what has happened between you, and where the worry sits — and what comes back is a reading of that pattern with one next step that is yours alone.
Is it private?
No answer you tap leaves your phone. The reading is worked out on your device, nothing about you, your partner or anything that has happened is stored, and if you share the result the card carries the reading's name and nothing else. That matters more here than on any other page on the site, which is why there is no share action at all on the safety reading.
Can this tell me if my partner is cheating?
No, and it never will. It cannot know what has or has not happened between you, it does not ask you to find out, and it will never suggest looking at a phone, an account, a location or messages, or asking anyone else what they have seen — none of that answers the question, and all of it costs something. What it can do is read the trust-related changes you are able to describe yourself: whether the small things are straight, whether what gets said and what happens line up, whether anything specific has happened and come around again, and what happens when you raise a concern. Then it gives you one thing to do that needs nobody's permission.
More relationship health calculators · This reading is an interpretation of what you describe — not a fact about your partner, not a finding about anything that has or has not happened, and not advice. Read the disclaimer.