Relationship
Relationship Potential
Someone asked what you two are and you heard yourself hedge — this walks through what's actually being built between you, so "is this going anywhere?" has something to look at other than the version you tell your friends.
What this looks at
- Whether plans that get made actually happen, and whether contact holds through busy or bad weeks
- How much you're part of each other's people and ordinary weeks, and whether making things happen runs both ways
- How the future comes up between you, and what happens when the question of what you are comes up
This is an interpretation of what you described, not a fact about what anyone wants, not a forecast for the two of you, and not advice. More in the disclaimer.
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How this reading works
This reading looks at what is actually happening between the two of you, at the age this thing actually is. Your answers cover three things: whether plans that get made happen and hold through a hard week; how much each of you is part of the other's people and ordinary weeks; and who makes things happen, including the small unasked ones. Two more add how the future comes up, and what happens when the question of what you two are comes up — the pair that separates early from stuck. A steady foundation means the pieces are there given how long this has existed; real pieces with a patchy foundation means something real sits beside something missing; too early to read means there is not enough yet; a quiet foundation means the pieces are mostly not there so far. What it cannot tell you is what they want, why the future has stayed vague, or where this ends up. This reading works from what you tell it: it looks for patterns in your answers, it cannot see anything you did not describe, it does not know what anyone else is thinking, and it does not predict what happens next.
Questions people ask
Does this work whether it's a he, a she or they?
Yes, identically. The questions ask about plans, people, effort and what gets said, and none of them depends on who anyone is. It's written for anyone wondering about anyone, in whatever shape the two of you are — this one page is the answer whichever pronoun you searched with.
Is this accurate?
It's as accurate as what you've noticed, because that's all it has. It reads the shape your answers make at the age this thing actually is, and says what that shape often goes with. It can't see what they want, why the future has stayed vague, or whether this lasts — that last one is the honest answer to "is this going anywhere?", and it's the one thing no reading can hand you. What it can do is separate "too early" from "stuck," which is usually the question underneath: the same vagueness at two months and at ten months are two different pieces of information. Take it again after a busy month, or after a conversation, and it may read differently — that's the point rather than a flaw.
Is this a quiz or a calculator?
Neither, really. There's no right answer to any of these questions, no score at the end, and no label applied to what you have. It sorts what you described into one of four shapes and gives you one step that fits where you are.
Is it private?
No answer you tap leaves your device. The reading is worked out there, nothing about you or about them is stored, and a share carries the reading's name and nothing else — no answers, no signals, no reference to anyone. If you both take it, neither of you sees the other's answers.
Does this work for a situationship, or only once it's official?
Either way, and it never decides which one you're in. The questions are worded so a new couple with a label and two people who've never used one answer exactly the same things, and no band, headline or step applies a word to what you have. It reads what's being built, not what it's called.
More relationship calculators · This is an interpretation of what you described, not a fact about what anyone wants, not a forecast for the two of you, and not advice. More in the disclaimer.